LASUED Directorate of Guidance, Counselling and Career Development Sensitizes Final-Year Students on Life Post University’s Journey

The Directorate of Guidance, Counseling and Career Development at Lagos State University of Education( LASUED) held a seminar for final-year students on Wednesday, 6th May 2026, aimed at preparing them for life after graduation. The focus was on career choices, relationships, and marriage. 

The event took place at the Oluremi Tinubu Hall on the Oto/Ijanikin Main Campus with the theme “Love, Sex, and Discipline: Dating with Purpose and Preparing for Marriage Beyond Feelings.”

In her opening remarks, Director of the Directorate of Guidance, Counseling, and Career Development, Prof. Asikhia Olubusayo described graduation as a transition into adulthood and greater responsibility. She emphasised the need for students to develop discipline, emotional intelligence, and intentionality in relationships. She noted that successful marriages require more than attraction, describing marriage as both a “Business and a Ministry” founded on shared values, commitment, and mutual understanding.

Also speaking at the seminar, the Acting Dean, Student's Affairs, Dr. Dawodu R.A. reaffirmed the university's commitment to the holistic development of students beyond academics. He explained that the period after graduation is a critical phase when students make major decisions about careers and personal relationships. He advised students to approach relationships with discipline and purpose, urging them to consider important compatibility factors such as genotype, shared vision, emotional stability, and financial readiness, rather than relying solely on emotional attraction.

Delivering the keynote address, CEO of Renee Golden Multi-Ventures, Mrs Adenike Apeji emphasized the importance of marriage in nation- building. She described the family as the foundation of society and explained the difference between customary and statutory marriages under Nigerian law. She noted that cohabitation without legal backing does not constitute marriage. Admonitions against poor relationship decisions were issued, linking many life challenges to a lack of guidance, and students were encouraged to make informed and deliberate choices. She also praised Vice Chancellor Prof. Bidemi Bilkis Lafiaji-Okuneye for prioritizing student welfare. 

The seminar concluded with a call for students to build responsible lives and contribute to stronger families and society.