UNN Students: It is wrong for parents to accompany their children to universities. Here are the reasons!

There were controversies among students of the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, stating why it was wrong for parents to accompany their children to their admitted universities. 

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This argument occurred due to the arrival of new students on the school premises for the registration of the 2023/2024 session.

According to them, when parents accompany their children to university, it can hinder their autonomy and independence. Students need to learn how to navigate life on their own, make decisions, and solve problems without constant parental intervention.

They also noted that these new students would develop resilience and problem-solving skills when they were allowed to experience challenges independently.

"Failure is a powerful teacher. When they experience setbacks, they learn resilience and emotional regulation.

Parents who shield their children from failure inadvertently hinder their development. Overcoming failure helps children build coping skills and adaptability." A student noted.

Another student queried, "Why would they want to stress their parents like that?"

"Everything is wrong with it; they are grownups. Your parents cannot follow you for everything!" Another exclaimed.

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Research has shown that over-involved parents have negative effects on university students. Over-involved parents can contribute to higher levels of depression, stress, and a decreased ability to regulate emotions in young people.

While parents' intentions are often rooted in love and concern, it is essential to create a balance between support and allowing children to learn from their experiences. Encouraging independence and resilience prepares them for successful lives beyond the university years.